Impress or Influence

As men, we constantly evaluate in our minds who we are, what we've accomplished and what we want to be known for. We often refer to this as our legacy. When we're gone, what will people remember most about us?

As we think about the things that drive and motivate us through life, consider a very powerful thought by Rick Warren in his book, The Purpose-Driven Life: "At some point in your life, you must decide whether you want to impress people or influence people."

There are many ways (most of them flawed) to try and impress people, but it takes a real commitment to purpose and authenticity to influence people. It requires us to get close to people and allow them to see who we really are and when we do that people will see our flaws. Our Christian walk and personal testimony is not about perfection but it is all about credibility. We build credibility not by pretending to be perfect, but by being honest.

In building credibility, remember what Jesus said in Matthew 5:16---"let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven." We influence others when we show humility, patience, grace, forgiveness, faithfulness and love. We can only point others to Christ when we can show them how much we need Him and depend on Him.